Pro-life Ambassadors

A topic that has always been important to me is pro-life. I searched the internet, and there are many organizations that represent this topic, but I am choosing to write about the Pro-Life Ambassadors, which is an organization here on the campus of the University of Oklahoma. They are helping to educate our campus about certain issues, specifically abortions. They also are helping men and women that are faced with the situation of pregnancy. Their most recent project was Ask about Baby Feet. They drew baby feet around campus, which reminded me of how precious a gift baby are. The baby feet were a symbol to help raise awareness that a fetus develops toes six weeks after conception. I like the approach of the Pro-Life Ambassadors because they aren’t necessarily in your face about their cause, they just give out the facts and they do things to strike people’s attention. Next year, during their awareness week in November I will try to be actively involved. I will help with the chalking, and also try to come up with some more ideas to get more people interested in our cause of pro-life awareness. believe that if people knew the facts – that as early as 3 weeks after conception that the baby’s brain, spinal cord and heart all begin to develop, that a fetus has its own DNA, that the fetus is a human life – that they would be more receptive to the cause of pro-life.

The Kabul Beauty School

When an American thinks about the Taliban or Afghanistan in general, the first thing to come to mind is not typically beauty. In fact many times it is far from that. For Deborah Rodriguez, she felt it was her calling. While other people were using their, to some more useful, tools such as medical skills, she took her degree in Cosmetology to make a difference. Many looked down upon this situation. In Afghanistan, although the Taliban is lifted, men and women have strict roles they are to play. Women are expected to keep their hair and sometimes part of their faces covered. They also are expected to stay home. On the other side on this, men have freedom to do as they please. They can even have more than one wife; it is looked at as normal and typical. The assumptions and views that Americans have about Afghanistan are typically proven to be untrue when compared to the Kabul Beauty School movie, which was in general a cause to help the women of Afghanistan work towards better lives.

Now that the Taliban has been lifted, one would think it would be easy for freedom in Afghanistan. That is not the case. One of the main reasons that Rodriguez went to Afghanistan was to help empower the women there. As was gone through with the freedom of American woman, we know that this process can be a long one, and must be taken one step at a time. The starting of a beauty school was just one step to help women become better, and allow them the capability to have a job that would help support them along with their families. With this step comes another – some women would be making more money than their husbands. To many this may be looked down upon, but to the ones that are going through it, it is a huge relief that is helping them to get by, and make ends meet.

I related the situation of stereotyping with the women of Afghanistan to how Peggy McIntosh described it in her article White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Backpack. No, Americans don’t typically the beauty as something important, but that is because it is something we have such an easy access too. It is not in reality the fact that we see it as stereotypes, it is the fact that we choose to overlook, or not see it at all. We do not see why beauty is important to them, especially when they just have to keep it covered up with a burqa. It was proven in the film that beauty is a great deal more than that – it was about feeling powerful and pretty; making them confident about themselves so that they can go out and work towards equality. With the opportunity to attend beauty school, come great possibilities for these women to live great, powerful lives.

Personally, Rodriguez seemed to be trying to show that Americans should use the freedom and abilities that they have to better other peoples’ lives; and in return get theirs changed also. Kabul Beauty School showed Americans new ways to view Afghanistan. Although it took a significant amount of work and hard effort, it still made a great advance towards women empowerment in Afghanistan.

NGO

Priests for Life is a non-governmental organization that helps to protect human life. Their focus of the ministry is to raise awareness of the negative effects of abortion. They see the value of a human life in all stages. They also see the negative effects that this can have on mothers. They try to raise support in this cause to decrease abortions.


This is a gender issue because to an extent if effects women’s rights. The topic of abortion plays a big role in feminism because some consider it to not be giving women equality. I believe that women should have the right to choose – that is the right to choose to not have unprotected sex. We are in the 21st Century, where medicine is at its finest. With that being said, there are many options to avoid being in the situation of unwanted pregnancy. In feminism, women should have rights, but with rights comes responsibility – the responsibility to take the credit for our actions.


I was reading the Darraj essay, and it definitely reminded me of how typical and judgmental we as Americans can be. We should see the fact that just because we have equality, doesn’t mean we’re better than someone else, it means we should go out and help those other women to take steps in gaining the same freedom and respect that we have.

"Tough Guise"

When thinking about the “tough guise,” the first benefit of it that comes to mind is that they don’t have to deal with emotional stuff. To an extent they might get more girls out of it, but after awhile the girls will realize that it is just an act that some men like to put on.

I think that some consider it “male-bashing” just because for once something negative is being confronted and pointed out about men. In my opinion, “male-bashing” technically isn’t even bashing; it is simply just discussing the frustrating things that guys do that annoy me.

I believe that it would be difficult for boys of color to overcome the stereotype that is tied to them while growing up. Even if they grow up to be respectable, they would still have a difficult time gaining the trust of others. This is part of why this problem continues – because they don’t believe they will ever gain a positive reputation, so they don’t think it would be worth it to fight for it.

These portrayals significantly influence the way the majority of the white population sees men of color. We are a nation full of stereotypes, and we aren’t very open to people outgrowing, or losing their stereotype.

Opting-Out?

People had many strong, but different opinions when it came to Lisa Belkin's Opting-Out article. I found that many people thought that the mothers place was to be at home with her children. On the other end of the spectrum I found that people were thinking of the cases that women shouldn't put their full trust in someone else supporting them, especially with how high the divorce rates are in our country.
In my opinion, I think it is beneficial That is at least until their children are old enough to go to school all day. My mom stayed at home with my brother and I until I was in the fourth grade. It has greatly impacted my life. I now have a stronger relationship with my mom and I feel like she will always be there for me because she always has been present in my life. Even when she did have a job, she worked for the school that I attended, which meant she was easily accessible for me.
I will not leave my children at a daycare. I will either stay home with them or they will stay with someone in my family. The meals I have planned for my family will be nutritious because I find that very important.

Living on a Budget

I found an apartment that was 2 bedroom/2 baths for $565. It is somewhat roomy.

My Aunt lives in the city, and offered to watch the kids for free.

I have allowed $150 for food. I figured that I could use $40 for breakfast (Eggo's, breakfast bars, etc.) $20 for lunch (the kids will be with their aunt most of the time, and I will be at work. When we are home, there will be meat, cheese, and bread to make sandwiches.) I have allotted $60 for dinner (Homemade pizza, chicken, veggies, etc.) I have left over $30 (drinks and snacks.)

I have budgeted in $125 for clothes.

I work close to the apartment, so I wouldn't be driving much. I have budgeted in $35 for gas.

I have also budgeted in $75 for diapers, personal items, etc.

This leaves $98 left over. This will be extra money to use for things my children and I need, and for anything that costs more than budgeted.

This assignment was somewhat difficult because it's hard to prioritize the money. It would be a challenge, but not impossible to raise a family on this budget.

My Privileges

Personally, I do not consider myself white, but Native American. Even so, some areas of White privilege affect me. I can easily go to the store and find makeup that matches my skin tone. I can go shopping and not worry about being followed, or stereotyped as being someone that would steal.

I am not male, so male privileges do not apply to me.

It is assumed that I come from a wealthy family just because I dress nice, am well kept, attend a D-1 school, etc. Despite popular belief, my family is barely middle class. I receive OHLAP, which is a scholarship that assures I get a proper education. I do get some privileges because it is assumed that I am middle class. People do not automatically assume that I am not wealthy.

“Do not let anyone treat you as if you are unimportant because you are young. Instead be an example to the believers with your word, actions, your love, your faith, and your pure life.”
In some instances young people are looked down upon. People often assume that there is an apathetic attitude about young people, but I believe they are wrong. I think that as a young person I am very privileged because I basically have the whole world within my reach. I can be who I want, do what I want, and chase dreams that no one thought would ever be possible. We are a generation that is going past the norm.

I also am privileged as an able-bodied person. I do not have to worry about whether I have access to get into a building or not. I can drive a car, get a proper job, and not worry about being ridiculed from day to day. I do not have to worry about getting a proper education.